May 11, 2009
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“Why?” for the Day
Why is that girls/young women want to feel “sexy” and will wear suggestive clothing or engage in suggestive acts, body movements, etc. yet when a man acts upon her suggestions, she gets all pissy, defensive and cries “RAPE!”?
Comments (15)
Good question. My opinion is you should dress how you want to be treated. If you dress modestly then you should expect more respect. If you dress like a slut, then likewise expect to be treated as such.
What did you do now? Should I look for you on the news?
@DirtyAndShaken – Yes, but only because I create it.
@NoPenniesHere – I kinda hoped that as a girl you could help answer for me why the two ideas are so segregated in women’s minds but not in men’s. Or perhaps we could just stop at the first part of the question.
@ProfessorTom - Women like to dress sexy because it makes them feel good about themselves. A woman can be dressed in a modest way and still be sexy. Some women just don’t know how to accomplish that.
@NoPenniesHere – Now that I can understand and agree with. It’s the girls wanting attention and then complaining when they get it that I don’t get.
One person’s sexy is another person’s get-the-hell-away-from-me.
@heidenkind – You always struck me as an Anne Shirley/Donna Reid type of girl.
You mentioned that. But I have no idea what you mean.
@heidenkind – I think that your userpic is pretty representative of how you dress and behave.
LOL What would happen if I changed my user pic?
@heidenkind – You would likely change it to something just as modest and Jane Austin-like.
Maybe this painting is actually very sexually suggestive, did you think of that?
@heidenkind – Only if she’s reading The Joys of Sex.
For the record, I agree with you. I’ve always wondered the same thing. I think women misplace their intentions sometimes. I’ve met girls that think dressing that way will get them good, positive attention when really if you dress and act cheap, you’ll be treated accordingly.